He dislikes most people and avoids them, afraid to talk to them
We all think that introverts dislike people on purpose or can’t see them.I totally disagree today we will know clearly why introverts dislike people the real reason is what happens to them.
Yesterday I was at a social event organized by some of my friends. It was very nice. I was given the responsibility of presentation. I managed the whole program. It was very nice for me. I learned a lot from everyone.
When the program ended, one of my friends introduced him to his elder brother, then started talking to him. My friend, I was standing next to him, at one point he said, “Brother, I don’t talk much with people because I don’t like people.”
I tell him why I don’t like it, brother, tell me? She then replied that people always say random things and when they talk to me I get angry so I misbehave because of that I am very afraid of people’s words so I avoid people so that I don’t get angry through his words.
The above incident teaches us many things firstly the elder brother prefers to be alone and less talkative here he runs away from people it is true but he doesn’t dislike people here he wants to keep himself safe safe means dislike or hate people No.
It should be understood by all of us he is a soft hearted person so talk to him his way I continued to talk to him he talked to me very nicely that means what happened here he likes people but wants to do his way so From our point of view, it may seem that he hates people and is very proud, but it is not like that.
There are so many incidents in my life that I ran away because of the fear of people’s words. When I first started working in the first city, many incidents happened to me socially.
Let’s try to understand the matter through an example. Suppose someone dislikes me and criticizes me and gossips about me. There are many people in our life who cannot see my good.
When I realized that these were the people who disliked me, I deliberately avoided them because I was afraid that if I met, I would have to talk and if I did, he would talk down or insult me, which would hurt my personality and upset me. I used to avoid him or them because of this fear, the point is that if I met them, they would insult me when he walked down one street, I would try to walk down the opposite street.
So I would say introverts seem to dislike and hate people from a general point of view, but it’s not like that, they hide themselves to protect their personality and try to be happy.
I am leaving here today with a request to read the rest of the articles.
Thank You.
- Category : Introvert Articles
- Author : Tuhin Bin Alamgir