There have been many times in my life when guests came to our house, I was happy, but at night, when we had to share the bed together, I felt bad. I used to say that I don’t like to share my bed.

But I had nothing to do, I had to share the bed despite my reluctance, but I didn’t like it. There are several reasons for not liking it, but everyone’s reasons may be different, I am sharing mine.

First of all since childhood I like to be alone I like to sleep alone I like to spend time alone because I am an introvert you should know this too if you are an introvert.
As I always used to sleep alone, I didn’t like to sleep with anyone else, although this reason is very common because most people sleep alone before marriage, when they are young, usually when a child grows up, a conscious parent shifts the room. She is used to being alone until marriage.

But I met many people who can share the bed no problem I have a younger brother named Etu many guests were coming to my house I didn’t have my own place to stay so I decided to stay in Itu’s room and went to his house at night. As Etu is an extrovert person, he fell asleep very quickly but I was not able to sleep, even though I was a little sleepy during the night, so many people can share a bed like Etu and fall asleep without any problem.

We who are introverts are very sensitive people, so when we think about everything whether we can share the bed, we believe that maybe we can’t and then it takes a long time to catch our eyes and sleep does not come.

Psychologically, it is true that we always think a little too much, like the person next to me might snort at night or move his arms and legs to touch my body that we don’t like. In this regard, we are more careful that no one’s hands and feet touch our body, so we are afraid to share the bed at night, thinking about what will happen.

Not only that, if you breathe through your nose, you may sometimes feel annoyed with yourself, it disturbs your sleep, it doesn’t look good at all, so he can’t share his bed or feels uncomfortable, so an introvert prefers to sleep alone at night.

There are many other reasons such as I like to spend time with someone who I am free or like minded but with someone who is not like minded just know how it feels to be with him even if he is a little familiar but still I keep thinking in my head can we sleep together.

Sometimes shyness can also work, like the guest who is coming to your house may be your relative or acquaintance but you are not very free with him. If you go to sleep together, a little shyness can work.

Finally, I will say that there is nothing wrong with sleeping alone. When you get married, there is no problem because the person you are marrying is a person you love. In general, you will not like to share a bed with other people. This is a very common thing.

I am leaving here today with a request to read the rest of the articles.
Thank You.