Why introvert Life in Hard?
In this society, extrovert people always evaluate those who are there, people misunderstand silence, introvert people talk less than everyone else, this may be the fault, but the funny thing is that an introvert does not do it intentionally because it is a natural thing in his life, which people in this society misunderstand by doing.
Today we will know some difficult things of introvert life let’s start….
1. Expectations of our society
The society we live in is open so they prefer mixed nature people.
So an introvert starts to think that life is difficult because he can’t always blend in any environment and feels depressed. Shonen introvert it is not right at all I am an introvert myself I also started thinking very hard I started to understand the matter in the first time.
Then I did not change myself, I thought that I will try to change the environment around me and started to control the environment according to my own, since then my life started to become easier.
So you can do this too.
2. The problem of expressing one's opinion
Many times where the voice of the introvert is heard less or less important where the voice is loud or loud, the opinion of an introvert is often ignored.
I can talk about many meetings where I was not given the opportunity to express my opinion because my voice was slow but I had a lot of information about the topic I was thinking of talking about. I was forced to keep quiet when the problem of expression arose.
But then I try to figure out a solution. The solution is like this? Let’s start using modern social media. I started posting about the things that I know about like – writing – expressing my feelings through pictures and sometimes I used to express my feelings through my videos by talking. In this way, I started posting on social media, so people around me started to know and saw me on social media, and I started getting a lot of importance on social media.
Later it can be seen that I started to get the importance of expressing opinions among people, so you can find any solution or use my solution.
3. Big challenges in building relationships
An introvert always values deep relationships and finds it difficult to make initial conversations or approach others, which hinders them from expanding their social circle, which unfortunately poses a major challenge in relationship building.
I tried to make my life easier here by listening attentively to strangers or beginners and giving them a chance so that those people started to consider me important in their lives.
Because when you listen to other people very carefully and give importance to them then those people will give importance to you because everyone in the world wants people to listen carefully to what they say. When I started doing this, I found that people began to pay attention to me and I made myself flexible and made the big challenge of building relationships much easier. You can also use this technique.
4. The problem of being alone
If an introvert is alone then many times he starts to think alone and he starts to suffer from inferiority.
If an extrovert likes to be around people all the time or walks around, it doesn’t mean that he isn’t frustrated. He may like to be busy among people to free himself, so there are two positive and negative aspects. Being alone means you are much more lucky that you can be alone and no one else can. See when he came into the world alone, and he will depart from the world but alone.
Who has to pass many times in life so if you like to be alone then your life is ok life so nothing to be disappointed enjoy life dear introvert.
5. Networking limitations
Networking is important in many areas of life, but it can be difficult for introverts, which can limit opportunities at work.
You can figure out a nice solution to this problem.
You are an introvert so I believe you are a talented person and very skilled.
You convince people through your actions in your career.
Example- Any work in the office that no one can do without you or you will do it for free means that you do that work and submit it to the office for which you do not take any salary. In addition, by doing this, the officer will start thinking positively about you and the office. Keep proving your work skills in any meeting and you will see that your networking will increase and the networking problems will be eliminated.
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- Category : Introvert Articles
- Author : Tuhin Bin Alamgir